Age
Most
people will be ‘alergative’ or feel taboo when talking about life or
choosing to leave relatives to stay in a nursing parlor. What exactly is
a nursing parlour and how is life there? How much does it cost? I
summarize from different sources.
Nurss and Singles
A
nursing partner or or now known as social parlor tresna werdha is a
place that provides service offering care facilities for the elderly.
There are many reasons why someone is deposited in a orphanage whose
management can be from this government or foundation. Among them is not
having a partner or child, there are no family or relatives who can take
care of it because of busyness or difficulty when having to take care
of the elderly.
Disobstasy
often appears in the hearts of many people when the option of leaving
families who are elderly in the West id. Same with me personally. Years
ago, this option was expressed by the family when we had difficulty
keeping one of the relatives who called Eyang Jauh because he did not
have a husband and child.
In
fact, the family has been taking turns to take care of him for many
years and was last devoted in one of the brothers. But because he also
took care of his mother who was also already elder, there was something
else that was considered.
Alhamdulillah,
Eyang Jauh is still physically healthy but psychically began to senib
so often the CHAPTER is often indiscribable. Unlike the Embah that I
used to treat because of a stroke for many years so as to do all the activities in bed or Mother as a cancer survivan that until now is still healthy, another case with Eyang Jauh.
Biological
clocks are changing, such as more frequent sleep during the day and
activity at night. And that activity was filled with walking back and
forth to every room, turning off the lights and looking for food to eat.
Because it can not control the CHAPTER, the dirt is diluted and the
entire room almost every time must be cleaned because the smell is unbe
harboured. A house that is not as large as an obstacle.
A
heavy decision was taken, Eyang Jauhs will be temporarily deposited
while the family prepares a decent place that is still a renovation
process. And when a more comfortable house has been completed, the Far
Eyang will be returned to the family.
Tips for Finding a Nurss
Manager
Make
sure Menong friends find out who the foundation manager is, whether it
is public or private. Make sure the home has a legal basis. For Muslims,
of course, it would be better if you also choose a parlor that is in
line according to the Shari’ah. The profile of the manager is usually
listed on the internet profile and we can cross-check during direct
visits.
Location
When
we leave parents or relatives, the location is selected and adjusted to
make it easier for us when it will visit. Although the availability of
empty places can not be predicted, choose the nearest nursing house with
the family so that the elderly we leave do not feel abandoned or
discarded.
Facilities
The
costs incurred will be in accordance with the facilities provided such
as the number of occupants per room, living room, recreation room,
sunbad and others. Is it reserved for the elderly women or the mix of
female men. Also make sure the number of residents in accordance with
the capacity of the orphan which means not josted.
Menong friends can also check if there is a manager providing entertainment activities for the residents of the orphan.
On
the internet, usually there are photos of facilities such as room space
but it would be more fitting if previously friends Menong surveyed
directly. It could be that the photo will be different from the actual
condition.
The
basic question is whether the orphan receives the elderly who are not
independent such as already unable to control the CHAPTER because it is
senilied or elderly with a history of certain diseases such as stroke or
others.
To the extent that we surveyed, it is very rare that the orphans who are willing to accept the elderly are not independent.
Cost
Well,
this is a determining factor. Actually, the government provides a free
nursing house for citizens who cannot afford it. But it must be in
accordance with the facilities provided.
When
Menong’s friends have more funds, private nursing homes are an option.
The cost that the family has to provide is around 3.5 - 6 million per
month. Make sure what the cost includes pampers, mild drugs and
companions?
Ask
also requires a deposit for a 1-month room fee so that Menong’s friends
should provide funds for two months of treatment at the beginning.
Because it is difficult to get a place, the booking
system applies almost every parlor. Although the elderly will not be
paid because there are still many things that must be prepared, it is
good for Menong's friends to pay one month first as a 'sign of the
finished'.
Panti Jompo in Bandung Raya
West Java Provincial Government of Nurss
The
West Java Provincial Social Service provides 4 nursing homes located in
Sukabumi, Karawang, Garut and Bandung. The orphanage of the East Java
Provincial Social Service is located at PPS Griya Elderly Location on
Jl. Raya Pacet No. 186 Pakutandang Village Kec. Ciparay Kab. Bandung.
There is no cost for anyone who wants to leave his family here just
there are certain requirements. The capacity of the orphanage has a
capacity of 150 people with one room facility for 2 people. What are the requirements?
- Minimum age 60 years old
- Physical and spiritual health
- Preferably self-sufficient
- Not having a family or displaced
- Not having a mental disorder
- Letter of recommendation of district / city dinsos
- Negative swab/PCR results
- Affidavit
is not able to take care of the parents of children / families on stamp
duty Rp 10,000, - known local RT / RW (who still has a family)
- KTP and KK
- Letter of moving domicile from the area of origin
The
elderly in this nursing parlor received the facilities of accompanying
nurses, pramuwerdha, doctors, food, clothing, and spiritual guidance.
Werdha Karitas Nurss
Located
in the Cibeber area of South Cimahi District, Cimahi City, Karitas
nursing home receives elderly aged 65 - 75 years and is allowed for any
religion (Muslim, Christianity, Buddhist). There is no cost but usually the nominal incurred ranges from 1 - 1.5 million per month. One room is inhabited by 2 - 3 people.
Wisma Elder Elder Sunarti Nasution
The
elderly guesthouse Sunarti Nasution is located on the Road. Mr. Gatot 1
KPAD Geger Kalong, Bandung. This guesthouse only accepts independent
elderly which means they can still eat and defecate alone without
assistance.
The
cost is 4.5 million per month when choosing 1 room 1 person and 1.5
million when choosing 1 room for 3 people. Costs include pamphper and
mild medicines and companions unless the elderly are hospitalized then
the cost and companionship are dependent on the family. This guesthouse
includes cheap nursing homes in Bandung in terms of cost.
The homestead manager usually asks the patient’s family to make a visit first before leaving his family.
Fakku Panti Jompo Raqaban Rancabolang
This
orphanage under the affiliate of Muhammadiyah is located on Jalan
Gedebage Selatan No. 14 A RT 02 RW 02 Rancabolang, Gedebage District,
Bandung City. It has been established since 1980, this orphanage is
devoted to the elderly incapability so as not to accept the elderly who
still have families, especially financially able families. The need for a
parlor comes from donors.
Managed
by 6 administrators, the residents of the orphanage are given
activities such as studies, skills and other positive activities such as
gymnastics and health check-ups.
Some of the orphanage is managed professionally but some start from caring for others. The
nursing partner not only accepts the elderly but also some people with
special needs despite the age of less than 60 years. In general, the
occupants of the orphanage do come from families who do not have the
time or special skills to maintain the elderly.
Pondok Elder Princess Sumpena
The
house where we left Eyang Jauh, Pondok Lansia Putri Sumpena, very
simple with the original house in the 90's not so big but has enough
space to be filled with 11 occupants (male and female). Some residents
inhabit the room together, including the Far Eyang. Some residents with
special needs such as stroke or others occupy their own rooms. So far,
the home of our choice is the only nursing home that can accept the
elderly are not independent.
Located
in the Lembang area, every morning, residents will be bathed by the
manager and then breakfast and end with sunbathy activities. To avoid
the occupants of the 'escape' from the parlor, the iron fence is
deliberately not given lubricant so that it is difficult to shift and
sound when there are people coming to open the door.
There are 4 administrators including the chairman of the Foundation, three stand by
guard because they live in the orphans and 1 person, namely the locals
who are in charge of helping to wash clothes and bathe the occupants.
Cost required Rp. 3.5 million per month with a one-month deposit provision. (Update July 18, 2024)
There
is no sad impression, all seem healthy and fresh. Eyang Jauh himself
seemed to be more obedient and spent time sleeping. Alhamdulillah until
now, every week there are always families who come to visit to accompany
Eyang Jauh even though only a few hours while bringing needs such as
eucalywood oil or cake.
When visiting I also took the time to talk to the manager and other residents who seemed happy I was talking to.
Most
importantly, when leaving a family in a nursing parlor, always monitor
and do not let our family be in a nursing parlor without our
supervision. However, it is our duty to take care of them.
Make
sure the family we have been deposited is treated as appropriate, not
only physical (e.e., health such as care so as not to be injured such as
falling, there is a rash on the buttocks due to the use of pampers for
too long and rarely replaced, sunbathing every morning, cleanliness of
mattresses and clothes) and mental and spiritual (e. worship according
to their respective religions and beliefs).
Eyang
Jauh himself passed away 5 months after we left him in a nursing home.
The last month, the condition of Eyang Jauh did decrease and began to
appear a severe rash on the buttocks so we called homecare to
treat it. Towards the end of his life, we took turns waiting for him but
was not allowed to stay overnight because it would disturb the other
residents of the orphan.
The
body of Eyang Far was taken care of directly by the caretaker
(coinciding the location facing the mosque). The manager does not allow
the family to take care of (my estimate, so that there is no unrest so
that the manager can carry out his duties calmly). The body car immediately delivered to the family for burial.
Cheap
nursing homes in Bandung can be an alternative for Menong friends who
need information. We hope we will age with family. As a child, caring
for parents can be a field of charity but when there is no choice, leave
parents or relatives in a cheap nursing house in Bandung is not
something taboo.
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