When
the age is creeping up but the worship of the heart has not yet been seen, when it comes, of course, it will make some people nervous, and one of them
is myself. Don’t ask me how many times people try to set me up with
someone. Of the many series of stories, one that I will always remember is about being almost entangled in Indonesian love scams or becoming victims of
love fraud.
When
the ‘critical period awaits a soulmate,’ I was twice invited to meet a
‘doctor’ in the world of telephone. The first time I only had time to
communicate with 'Pak Indra,' who claimed to be my Uwa junior high school
friend. The second time I was called directly by ‘Pak Alex,’ who claimed
to be an OJK employee who had visited my office. From 'Pak Alex,' I met a
doctor named Hadi in Maluku who was taking care of his move to RSCM
Jakarta.
Although
the initial conversation raises a lot of questions, I keep on the
phone until the next day. At that time I did not know the scammer of
love and did not realize almost once I was the victim.
Although I finally escaped the scam of love
scammers, the story I experienced was still practiced many years later
when I got acquainted with Mother Fey from the Love Scammers' Community.
What is a love scammer? Let's get to know each other!
What is love scamming?
Qodarullah, a few weeks ago, I found an Instagram account that posts about love scamming. Account @feydownwsc_official
This Fey Mother has long echoed anti-fraud (fraud),
especially love scammers.
Mother Fey and @bayususeno2011 actively voice anti-scam programmer love through the RSC-WSC community, Smart Standby Volunteer Beware Love Scammer
since 2012. And even Mother Fey has done a lot of research on this love story from 2002.
The RSC-WSC community has a mission: to educate women in
social media and embrace victims of love scammers. This community also supports a center to help victims of love scammers and provide digital literacy
for the general public through digital media such as Instagram.
Do not forget to zoom in or zoom the photos in this post so that Menong friends can read the explanation as well.
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| Total Loss of Love Scammer |
From the various posts of Mother Fey, I realized
if ‘Sax Indra,’ ‘Pak Alex,’ and Hadi, who called me more than 10 years ago with the motive of finding a wife-to-be, are part of a scammer love Indonesia.
Menong's friend must have heard the story of a middle-aged woman who flew from Tangerang to Lombok to meet 'pujaan.
His heart was what he had been looking for for 3 years. Retromarily, through TikTok,
the woman was promised to be married. Although there is no financial harm, this could be an example of one of the victims of Indonesian love scammers.
Love scammers usually captivate their victims (women and
men) by using a fake account by photographing a photo of someone's account that
has a charming physical appearance and duplicating it with a false identity
to cheat.
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| A man squeezes scammer love |
This romance scam is usually established in sufficient time until the victim is persuaded, believes, and starts giving money voluntarily or is forced alias to be squeezed. Many unconscious victims have been deceived
even though you have given a lot of money. Although the victim was finally aware, very rarely do victims dare to speak up because of shame, especially when
it's been entangled in sex scams. Loss not only materially but also
psychically.
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| Love scams disguise the profile of a policeman |
The
RSC-WSC community itself is active through social media, seminars, or
volunteer recruitment to provide education on the motives of the crime
of love scammers and strategies
fraudsters use to ensnare their victims to assist victims so that they are no
longer
Many victims fell.
Not only the RSC-WSC community, but also Uya Kuya, through his podcast, voiced the dangers of this love scammer. One of the contents of the podcast that most pained our hearts is the existence of a scammer plot.
Love is coordinated from inside the prison. Not only do Indonesians love scammers, but this love scammer plot is also a lot from abroad, like Nigeria.
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| Competing scammer love from Nigeria |
Fraud is
usually established for a long time until the victim is persuaded,
believes, and starts giving money voluntarily or is forced to, alias, insist.
Many victims have not realized they have been deceived despite
giving large amounts of money. Although finally the victim is aware,
very rarely do victims dare to speak up because of shame,
especially when they have been entangled in sex scams. Loss not only
materially but also psychically. Menong's friend certainly remembers how
a mother who works as a teacher and is also the wife of a police member
can be entangled with a scammer in love with losses of hundreds of
millions of rupiah.
Love Scammer Profile
So why yes these victims can be fooled by scammers of love??
One of the similarities of these victims is to be tempted
with the physical appearance, work, and wealth of the fraudster. Victims fantasize about getting a partner in a TNI/POLRI uniform, offshore workers,
doctors, or
others are obtained from the virtual world and lulled by the sweet words
'prince of the heart.' There are also fraudsters who use photos of Prince William as their profile picture. Is there still a woman who is tempted by this 'halu' version of 'Pangeran'? I don't know. 😌
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| Prince William's fake account |
There is even a female worker
(TKW) in Hong Kong who stated that she was in love with
Cristiano Ronaldo, a Portuguese footballer, and now CR7 is learning Indonesian in order to communicate with the TKW and his family
in Demak. And it turns out CR7 asked for help to be sent money of Rp. 30 million to open an account abroad. - brilio source
Excerpted from Instagram post Mother Fey, scammer profile
This love is usually a single parent (jad/duda) child 1 and of course
photos of the child (comotan from another account) will be shown to attract sympathy.
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| Love scammer account in group taaruf |
Male fraudsters are usually handsome-faced, while female fraudsters Although they do not have a beautiful face but have a sexy body (aduhai), male fraudsters
have a well-established job (this does not apply to female fraudsters, yes, most importantly, sexy aduhai).
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| Fake fake account model from Malaysia |
The
target of the age of the victim is usually a woman/man over 35 years
who is upset, lonely, has no friends, and wants to get a partner. Although not frequently, the victim also has a legitimate partner.
Mode of Love Scammer
The love scammer is certainly nuanced romance. The fraudster will
approach the victim through the dramatic side of the victim's life story and then shower the victim
with attention, praise, and beautiful words as sweet as honey, like "I love you" and "I miss you," calling with
the call of affection (father-bunda, daddy-mommy), always reminding them to worship
or anything else. The victim was getting more and more compliant so that when the fraudster needed
his help, mainly financially, the victim would not hesitate to help directly.
The fraudster will then invite the victim to communicate more intensely. Usually the fraudster does not want to bring up his real face, even when we
ask him to make a video call. The reason can vary from the start.
It doesn’t hurt because of the sweaty face. If anyone dares to appear directly in the video call, it could be the fraudster using a filter or artificial
intelligence (AI) that can manipulate sounds and faces.
And usually the cheater will display his side of greatness
to further convince victims, such as using uniforms or background items,
Luster. In the advanced stages, it is not uncommon for the fraudster to invite the victim to make a video of sex (opening clothes, showing intimate organs, or others) that are unwittingly screenshottedor recorded secretly to squeeze the victim in the end.
Now there are many real account owners who make a voice when the photo
and the biodata is used to cheat because many victims of wrong fraud
The target vents its uniqueness after being consciously deceived on the original account. The ridiculous thing is, even the fraudster also clarified that the photo and bio are original and the bio is often used by others to cheat.
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